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Wedding Speech Blog: Guidance for the Speech You Can’t Afford to Get Wrong

Practical advice, real examples, and the craft principles behind the speeches people remember for the rest of their lives.

Best man giving a speech at a wedding reception
Best ManFebruary 21, 2026

7 Best Man Speech Examples (That Actually Sound Human)

Real best man speech examples, funny, heartfelt, and short, with notes on why each one works. Use them as a starting point, not a script.

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Bride confidently holding a microphone to address guests at her wedding reception
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

The Bride's Speech: What to Say When Nobody Expects You To

More brides are giving speeches at their own weddings. Here's what works, what doesn't, and how to write one that sounds like you.

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Brother of the bride giving a heartfelt speech at the wedding reception
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

Brother of the Bride Speech: What to Say (and What to Skip)

You've known her longer than anyone in this room. Here's how to turn that into a speech that actually does justice to it.

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Father of the bride sharing a warm, proud moment with his daughter on her wedding day
Father/Mother of BrideFebruary 21, 2026

Father of the Bride Speech Tips: How to Say What You've Always Felt

Practical tips for dads who aren't natural public speakers. How to structure it, what to say about the groom, and how to get through it without losing the room.

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Groomsman delivering a toast at a wedding reception
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

How to Give a Groomsman Speech (When You're Not the Best Man)

You're not the best man, but you've been asked to say something. Here's how to give a groomsman toast that holds its own, without stepping on anyone else's speech.

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Wedding speaker raising a glass to deliver a powerful closing to their speech
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

How to End a Wedding Speech (The Part Everyone Gets Wrong)

Most wedding speeches fall apart in the last 30 seconds. Here's how to write a closing that actually lands, with examples for every role.

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Person rehearsing and memorizing a wedding speech from note cards
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

How to Memorize a Wedding Speech (And What to Do If You Blank)

Full memorization vs. notes: what actually works, a practice method that sticks, and how to recover if your mind goes blank mid-speech.

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Speaker composing themselves during an emotional wedding toast
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

How to Not Cry During a Wedding Speech (Or At Least Recover When You Do)

Crying mid-speech is more common than you think. Here's what actually helps before and during, and how to recover gracefully when it happens anyway.

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Person practicing a wedding speech at home with notes in hand
Best ManFebruary 21, 2026

How to Practice Your Wedding Speech (So It Doesn't Sound Rehearsed)

The right way to rehearse a wedding speech: timing, delivery, nerves, and how to sound natural on the day.

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Person cutting and editing a wedding speech draft down to the essentials
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

How to Shorten a Wedding Speech (Without Losing What Matters)

Your speech is too long. Here's a systematic way to cut it down without cutting out the parts that actually work.

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Maid of honor raising a champagne glass and smiling warmly at the bride during the wedding reception toast
Maid of HonorFebruary 21, 2026

The Complete Maid of Honor Speech Guide

How to write a maid of honor speech that balances real humor with genuine heart, and makes the bride cry in the best possible way.

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Person standing nervously at a wedding reception before giving their speech
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

Terrified to Give a Wedding Speech? Read This First

Wedding speech anxiety is completely normal. Here's what actually helps, and why the thing you're most worried about probably won't happen.

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Wedding officiant addressing guests at an outdoor ceremony
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

How to Write a Wedding Officiant Speech (With Examples)

First time officiating a wedding? Here's exactly what to say, in what order, with real examples you can adapt. From the processional welcome to the pronouncement.

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Guests raising glasses in a heartfelt toast at a second marriage wedding reception
Best ManFebruary 21, 2026

Writing a Wedding Speech for a Second Marriage

How to give a wedding toast when it's a second marriage: what's different, what to address, and how to make it feel right.

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Wedding guests raising glasses for a short, memorable toast
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

A Short Wedding Toast That Lands Every Time (30 Seconds to 2 Minutes)

You don't need five minutes to give a great wedding toast. Here's how to write a short one that still hits, with examples at 30 seconds, 1 minute, and 2 minutes.

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Sister of the bride giving an emotional speech at the wedding reception
Maid of HonorFebruary 21, 2026

How to Write a Sister of the Bride Speech (With Examples)

A guide for sisters writing the maid of honor or wedding speech: what to say, how to structure it, what to avoid.

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Friend delivering a warm, personal toast at a wedding reception
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

How to Write a Wedding Speech for a Friend (When You're Not in the Wedding Party)

You've been asked to say something at your friend's wedding. You're not the best man or maid of honor, just someone they trust with a microphone. Here's how to earn that trust.

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Parent giving an emotional speech for their daughter at her wedding
Father of BrideFebruary 21, 2026

How to Write a Wedding Speech for Your Daughter (Father or Mother)

You've spent decades finding words for everything she went through. This one's harder. Here's how to write a speech that says what you actually mean.

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Speaker getting genuine laughs from wedding guests with well-crafted jokes
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

Wedding Speech Jokes: What Works, What Doesn't, and How to Write Your Own

Generic wedding speech jokes land flat. Here's how to write humor that's actually funny, rooted in the specific person you're speaking about.

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Person writing a wedding speech at a desk with notes and a coffee
GeneralFebruary 21, 2026

Do You Need a Wedding Speech Writer? (Your Options, Honestly)

Hiring a wedding speech writer, using AI, or writing it yourself: here's what each option actually costs and when each one makes sense.

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Person comparing AI wedding speech generator results on a laptop
Best ManFebruary 20, 2026

I Tested 7 AI Wedding Speech Generators So You Don't Have To

From free tools to $30 apps, I put every major AI wedding speech generator through the same test. Here's what I found, and which one actually sounds like a real person wrote it.

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Wedding speaker opening a speech with confidence at a reception
GeneralFebruary 19, 2026

50 Wedding Speech Opening Lines That Actually Work (By Role)

The opening line of your wedding speech sets the tone for everything that follows. Here are 50 proven openers, sorted by speech type, to get you started.

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Wedding speaker checking notes on timing before delivering a speech
Best ManFebruary 19, 2026

How Long Should a Wedding Speech Be? The Definitive Answer

The sweet spot is 4-6 minutes. Here's why, plus timing guidance for every speech type and how to cut yours down without losing what matters.

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Wedding speaker cringing at a microphone in front of a reception crowd
GeneralFebruary 18, 2026

30 Wedding Speech Red Flags (Things That Will Make the Room Cringe)

The most common wedding speech mistakes, from the minor to the catastrophic. Avoid these and you're already ahead of 80% of speakers.

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Father and daughter sharing a warm, proud moment on her wedding day
Father/Mother of BrideFebruary 17, 2026

What Makes a Great Father of the Bride Speech

You've watched her grow up. You've been there for all of it. Now you have seven minutes to say what that meant. Here's how to do it justice.

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Father of the bride giving a proud speech at his daughter's wedding
Father of the BrideFebruary 15, 2026

Father of the Bride Speech: A Complete Guide (With Structure and Examples)

Everything a father of the bride needs to know about writing and delivering a speech that does justice to the moment.

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Wedding speaker delivering a heartfelt speech at a reception
Wedding SpeechFebruary 14, 2026

10 Wedding Speech Examples (And What Makes Them Work)

Real examples of wedding speech openings, structures, and toasts, with analysis of why they land.

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Couple exchanging personal vows at a sunlit outdoor ceremony, holding hands
Wedding VowsFebruary 14, 2026

Writing Wedding Vows That Actually Sound Like You

Most wedding vows end up sounding like someone else wrote them. Here's how to find your own voice when the stakes have never been higher.

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Person standing confidently with a microphone ready to open a wedding toast
Wedding ToastFebruary 13, 2026

How to Start a Wedding Toast (When You Have No Idea Where to Begin)

The opening line of your wedding toast sets the tone for everything. Here's how to nail it, and what to avoid.

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Groom delivering a heartfelt speech at his wedding reception
GroomFebruary 12, 2026

The Groom Speech: What to Say, What to Skip, and How to Make It Count

A practical guide for grooms who need to stand up in front of everyone and say something worthy of the moment.

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Best man getting genuine laughs from wedding guests during his speech
Best ManFebruary 11, 2026

Funny Wedding Speeches: How to Get Real Laughs Without the Cringe

The secret to a funny wedding speech isn't jokes, it's specificity. Here's how to write one that gets genuine laughs.

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Best man making guests laugh and cry during an emotional wedding speech
Best ManFebruary 10, 2026

How to Write a Best Man Speech That Gets Laughs and Tears

The best best man speeches do two impossible things at once: make the room laugh until they cry, then make them cry for real. Here's how to pull it off.

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Mother of the bride giving a heartfelt speech at her daughter's wedding reception
Mother of the BrideFebruary 10, 2026

Mother of the Bride Speech: What to Say (And How to Say It Without Crying Too Much)

A complete guide for mothers of the bride: what to include, how to structure it, and how to get through it.

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Wedding speaker holding a microphone illustrating the difference between a toast and a speech
GeneralFebruary 9, 2026

Wedding Toast vs Wedding Speech: What's Actually the Difference?

People use these terms interchangeably, but they're not the same thing. Here's what each is, when each is used, and how to write both.

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Speaker delivering a concise three-minute wedding speech to an attentive room
GeneralFebruary 8, 2026

The 3-Minute Wedding Speech Template (That Doesn't Sound Like a Template)

A simple framework for a 3-minute wedding speech that feels personal, lands emotionally, and ends on time.

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