Write the Wedding Speech They'll Remember Forever
Writing a wedding speech feels impossible until it doesn't. We start with your real stories and turn them into something the room will actually remember. Three drafts, four rounds of review, your voice throughout.
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1,000+ speeches written. Real weddings. Real ovations.
How Our Wedding Speech Writer Works
Remember What Matters
You already have the stories. The time he drove four hours in a snowstorm. The voicemail she left the night before your wedding. The details are in there, you just haven't pulled them out yet. Our interview is designed to find the moments that will make the room feel something real.
Find Your Voice
You know what you want to say. You just can't get it on paper without it sounding like a greeting card or a stranger wrote it. VowAI builds three complete drafts around the way you actually talk, then four critics review every line before you see it. Edit until it's unmistakably yours.
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Give the Speech of Your Life
This is the moment. The room goes quiet. You look up from your notes and every word lands exactly where it should. The laugh you hoped for. The tears you didn't expect. The hug after that says everything. That's what we're building toward.
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“The best speeches aren’t written.
They’re excavated.”
AI Wedding Speech Review: Four Critics Refine Every Line
Four specialized AI critics, powered by our VowAI model, review and revise every draft before it reaches you. You only see the version that passed.
Authenticity Critic
Flags anything that sounds like it was written by an AI. Checks for clichés, borrowed sentiment, and moments where the voice slips from yours to generic. Pushes for specific over sentimental.
Comedy Editor
Evaluates joke structure, timing, and whether punchlines deliver. Catches anything that could land awkwardly with the room. Suggests tightening or restructuring bits that are close but not quite there.
Emotional Arc Reviewer
Checks whether the speech has a beginning that pulls people in, a middle that moves them, and an ending that lifts the room. The best speeches aren't just funny or heartfelt. They're both, in the right order.
Room Reader
Reviews the speech against your specific audience profile: age mix, sensitivities, cultural context. What kills in a reception hall doesn't always work at a conservative family dinner. This critic knows the difference.
What your critics actually do
“I've known Marcus for fifteen years, and in that time I've watched him grow from the guy who microwaved fish in our shared office to someone I'd genuinely trust with my life.”
Authenticity Critic
“The fish microwave detail is perfect. Specific, visual, and only someone who was actually there would say it. Keep it exactly as is.”
“So when he told me he'd found the one, I said ‘found’ like she was a parking spot. But watching them together, I understood.”
Comedy Editor
“The pause before ‘but watching them together’ needs space. Don't rush it. Let the laugh settle first.”
Wedding Speech Reviews From People Who Were Terrified Too
I had three stories I wanted to use and no idea how to connect them. The interview pulled out the exact details I'd forgotten: the name of the bar, what she was wearing. The final speech had people crying and laughing inside the same minute.
Best Man · Brother of the groom · 400 guests
I was terrified. I'm not a writer. I gave it 40 minutes in the interview and got back something that sounded more like me than anything I could have written. My maid of honor speech got a standing ovation.
Maid of Honor · Best friend of 12 years · Intimate dinner
I added the expert polish option and the writer took my AI draft and made it extraordinary. The callback at the end. I didn't even think of that. I watched my daughter cry. Worth every penny.
Father of the Bride · With expert polish · 200 guests
“The room went quiet.
Then it went wild.”
Two Ways to Write Your Wedding Speech
Both start with the same 16-question interview and three complete draft angles.
Three full drafts from your stories. Edit with VowAI until it sounds right.
- 16-question interview process
- 3 distinct draft angles
- Four-reviewer VowAI quality pass
- Inline VowAI editing tools
- Speaker Mode for practice
- Delivery cues + timing estimates
- Money-back guarantee
A professional speechwriter takes your VowAI draft and finishes it by hand. Better rhythm. Real callback moments.
- Everything in VowAI Drafts
- Expert human polish pass
- Professional speechwriter review
- Better rhythm + callback moments
- Delivered within 7 days
- One round of revisions included
Real Wedding Speeches Start With Real Stories
Professional speechwriters, working comedians, and former wedding officiants. They don't touch the parts that already sound like you. They fix the parts that don't.
Wedding Speech Questions We Get a Lot
Yes. That's the whole point of the interview. We don't start by asking you to describe the couple. We start by asking how you tell stories, what your humor is like, and how nervous you are about this. That voice profile shapes every line of the draft, and you can keep editing until it sounds right.
You get three completely different draft angles: Heartfelt, Funny, and Classic. Each one goes through a four-reviewer quality pass before you see it. If none of them click, you can edit any section with the inline AI editor, or add expert polish to have a professional writer take over. If you're genuinely stuck, the money-back guarantee applies.
ChatGPT writes a generic speech from whatever you paste into the box. SpokenVow runs a 16-question interview designed to pull out the stories you'd almost forgotten: the specific moment, the exact detail, the line that makes people laugh because only someone who was there could say it. Then it writes three different angles, each reviewed by four specialized critics before you see a word. The output is built around your material, not placeholder stories.
We support seven: Wedding Vows, Best Man, Maid of Honor, Father/Mother of the Bride, Father/Mother of the Groom, Rehearsal Dinner Toast, and Thank You speech. Each has its own interview track. A best man speech and a set of wedding vows need completely different questions.
After you receive your AI drafts, you pick the one you like best and leave notes for your writer. They go through it line by line: fix the rhythm, sharpen the jokes, add a callback at the end. Turnaround is up to 7 days. Add it at least two weeks before the wedding.
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